Sizes, Schmizes

So I am stuck in between pant sizes one being too big and the other one being like yea I can get them on but don't eat that day or you won't be able to zip them let alone button them! Either that or you can never sit down cause it will cut off your mid section! Of course then there is those that the size actually fits but you got about 6 inches of loverly muffin top spillage at the top! Now some larger and even larger than me females seem to think this is ok and that it looks nice! Well not only does it look far from cute I find it very uncomfortable as well...maybe it's just me and the fact that I don't think the whole world needs to see the top half of my rear end when I even bend over in the slightest! Maybe I could get a thong to stick out the top! Would that make it more attractive? (Insert pukey smiley face here!) So anyways that's my grumble for the day!